Buttons, Buttons, Who Has Buttons?

We all carry baggage – suitcases full of childhood traumas real and perceived. When one persons trauma bumps into another persons trauma a mini explosion happens…”Boom!” Sudden anger, hostility and unkind words can fill the room and no one even fully understands what happened or where it came from!

It isn’t all that unusual to find ourselves in a situation when all of a sudden we are finding ourselves reacting with way too much energy
to someones words or actions that just trigger that short fuse. Our job in these times is to try to pause, take a step back and try to see where inside of us these feelings are coming from? With a little space and a few deep breaths we can then come back with a more normal reaction.  Later, when we are alone, we can review what happened and try to trace back where the heck those feelings originated.

“Your triggers have something to teach you about yourself.”  ~Panache Desai

  “Our job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.” ~ Byron Katie

It almost made me a little nervous to write this e-blurb because I know all too well how life goes.  I could be writing this article and feeling pretty good about myself, that it has been quite awhile since I had my buttons pushed.  Yes… I’m doing pretty good with that.

We all know what happens next, right? I’m going to go to work and be serenely going about my day… and then all of a sudden..wham there it is! Button pushed! Emotions engaged! All systems go!

Well, at least when it comes and that happens I am lucky enough to come to Unity in Naperville where we get tools for our tool kits for times like that!!   Keeping my serenity tool real close!!

Yours in Peace!  Carol Gadbaw

December 29, 2024
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • LET’S GO TO LUNCH - LAST SUN of THE MONTH after church - AT Xi'an Cuisine

    Let's get together after the service for lunch and socialization.  This will be a monthly event on the last Sunday of each month.  Location may vary but we will do this monthly, so you can plan ahead. Let's get to know each other better.  

    We’ll eat at Xi'an Cuisine, 376 Illinois Route 59, Naperville, IL 60540 for our lunch out!  If you have suggestions on where to eat or questions, email admin@unityinnaperville.org.  See you there!  

December 30, 2024
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

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    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

January 3, 2025
  • TELESTRATIONS GAME NIGHT!!! - FRI JAN 3  at 7pm

    Telestrations is a drawing game that’s essentially a hybrid of the game of “telephone” and Pictionary. But don’t worry, you don’t need any drawing skills. In fact, the worse you are, the better!

    Telestrations Game Night will be held at Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd, Naperville, IL 60563.  Please bring snacks to share and a $2 entry fee is asked to fund the prize pot, so please bring cash. Sign up in the Cafe or email admin@unityinnaperville.org.

January 5, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

January 6, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

    One tap mobile

    +13126266799,,85251930920# US (Chicago)

    +13017158592,,85251930920# US (Washington DC)

    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

  • GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP – CANCELLED JAN 7TH

    Our January meeting is cancelled. Our next meeting is Feb 7.

January 8, 2025
  • WOMEN’S GROUP INTRODUCTORY MEETING - WED JAN 8 at 7pm (ONLINE)

    Are you interested in being a part of a Women’s group to lift up, encourage and support each other and Unity in Naperville?  Please join us for an introductory meeting to talk about and decide what the group will be.  Some ideas are to socialize, promote community service projects, and/or have a book club.  We have the opportunity to create what we want and need.  Join us on Zoom Wed, January 8 at 7pm to explore this concept. Contact Susan Rittenhouse (srittenh@gmail.com) for more information. To access the Zoom link, see the Event Calendar at Unityinnaperville.org.

    ZOOM LINK:  < Coming Soon > 

January 12, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • “BACK ROOM DISCUSSION” FOR OUR ONLINE VIEWERS - 2nd SUNDAY OF THE MONTH - 12n-12:30pm

    access the Zoom room, click here.

    In the last three years, Unity’s Online Congregation has really grown. And we want to give our online attendees the chance to feel connected with our Leadership Team and other friends in our online community. Since you can’t hang out in person in Unity’s Front Room, we’re creating a virtual space to gather after the Service and we’re calling it the “Back Room.” Join Rev. Kitty and friends in this special Zoom room to meet and greet, talk about the Service, and let us know how we can better support you online. There’s no set agenda, but a moderator will keep things lively, so come to share, make friends, or just to listen in for a half hour or so. 

    To access the Zoom room, click here.  Trouble getting into the Back Room? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!

January 13, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

    One tap mobile

    +13126266799,,85251930920# US (Chicago)

    +13017158592,,85251930920# US (Washington DC)

    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

January 18, 2025
  • GET READY TO THRIVE IN 2025: VISION BOARD WORKSHOP - SAT JAN 18 at 9:30-11:30a.m with Deb DiSandro, Business Coach and founder of
    Speak Up On Purpose

    Instead of just wishing for things you “hope” will happen in 2025, harness the power of Unity Principles and Quantum Physics to command it into existence. Make your requests to the Universe with a vision board, then activate the 12 Divine Powers so you will thrive in 2025! Grab your posterboard and join us for a fun, creative, meaningful workshop. Deb will share some evidence-based research and spiritual insights to cheer you on as you create your fabulous future.
    - Declare your Divine Dreams
    - Envision your Future
    - Activate your Vision into Reality
    - Recognize and attract opportunities
    - Employ one Divine Power a month to stay focused
    - Live from a space of wonder and joy!

    SUPPLIES:
    - Magazines, glue, tape, markers and scissors provided.
    - Bring your posterboard, a magazine to share, and anything else.
    - Print any words or images from google you might add to your board

    Love Offering: $10-$20     Click here to register or register at the Info Table.
    Location:    Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd, Naperville, IL 60543
    Questions?    Email admin@unityinnaperville.org

January 19, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

January 20, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

    One tap mobile

    +13126266799,,85251930920# US (Chicago)

    +13017158592,,85251930920# US (Washington DC)

    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

January 26, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • LET’S GO TO LUNCH - LAST SUN of THE MONTH after church - AT ON THE BORDER

    Let's get together after the service for lunch and socialization.  This will be a monthly event on the last Sunday of each month.  Location may vary but we will do this monthly, so you can plan ahead. Let's get to know each other better.  

    We’ll eat at On The Border, 1915 Glacier Park Ave (along Rt 59), Naperville, IL 60540 for our lunch out!  If you have suggestions on where to eat or questions, email admin@unityinnaperville.org.  See you there!  

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