Buttons, Buttons, Who Has Buttons?

We all carry baggage – suitcases full of childhood traumas real and perceived. When one persons trauma bumps into another persons trauma a mini explosion happens…”Boom!” Sudden anger, hostility and unkind words can fill the room and no one even fully understands what happened or where it came from!

It isn’t all that unusual to find ourselves in a situation when all of a sudden we are finding ourselves reacting with way too much energy
to someones words or actions that just trigger that short fuse. Our job in these times is to try to pause, take a step back and try to see where inside of us these feelings are coming from? With a little space and a few deep breaths we can then come back with a more normal reaction.  Later, when we are alone, we can review what happened and try to trace back where the heck those feelings originated.

“Your triggers have something to teach you about yourself.”  ~Panache Desai

  “Our job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.” ~ Byron Katie

It almost made me a little nervous to write this e-blurb because I know all too well how life goes.  I could be writing this article and feeling pretty good about myself, that it has been quite awhile since I had my buttons pushed.  Yes… I’m doing pretty good with that.

We all know what happens next, right? I’m going to go to work and be serenely going about my day… and then all of a sudden..wham there it is! Button pushed! Emotions engaged! All systems go!

Well, at least when it comes and that happens I am lucky enough to come to Unity in Naperville where we get tools for our tool kits for times like that!!   Keeping my serenity tool real close!!

Yours in Peace!  Carol Gadbaw

February 24, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

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March 2, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

March 3, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - CANCELLED THIS WEEK

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is cancelled this week. The group will meet as usual next MON, MAR 10.

  • GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP – ONLINE - 1ST MON OF THE MONTH at 7-8pm

    Many of us have had the experience of losing someone dear to us. Yet no two people experience it in the same way. However, most would say that it helps to have someone support you as you journey through the process, and that’s what our Grief Support Group is for. Rev. Kitty will lead us as we take time for personal sharing and inspiration.  

    To access the Zoom room, click here.  Trouble getting in? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!

March 4, 2025
  • SISTERS IN SPIRIT MEETING - TUES MAR 4 at 6:30pm
    Date for Next Meeting is March 4 (In Person) 6:30pm at Unity.  We will work on also having a virtual component for those who are too far to travel to Unity.  The agenda will be to continue to work on the Pursology Event and to develop a Mission Statement.

March 7, 2025
  • CATCH PHRASE GAME NIGHT!!! - FRI MAR 7 AT 7PM

    Play The Grab It, Guess It, Pass It Game! The Catch Phrase game is an electronic game with words and phrases that's fun and challenging for family and friends to play. Try to get teammates to guess the word or phrase that appears on the screen by describing it any way possible! There are plenty of categories to choose from including Fun and Games, Entertainment, Everyday Life, Variety, and The World. All are welcome, and we will begin with a quick lesson on how to play. 

    Catch Phrase Game Night will be held at Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd, Naperville, IL 60563.  Please bring snacks to share and a $2 entry fee is asked to fund the prize pot, so please bring cash. Sign up in the Cafe or email admin@unityinnaperville.org.

March 8, 2025
  • ENERGY OF SPIRIT - SAT MAR 8 at 10-11am

    We will finish up learning techniques for Healthy Hearts and learn a technique to help our bodies transition from the contemplative energy of Winter to the “Let’s Go” energy of Spring. Advance registration is requested but not required. Email Admin@UnityinNaperville.org or sign up in the Cafe. Suggested love offering $10-20.  Donate at UnityInNaperville.org or at the door.  Questions?  Email Admin@UnityInNaperville.org.

    Every Blessing, Cindy Spies RN MSN Clinical Energy Healing Practitioner

March 9, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • “BACK ROOM DISCUSSION” FOR OUR ONLINE VIEWERS - 2nd SUNDAY OF THE MONTH - 12n-12:30pm

    access the Zoom room, click here.

    In the last three years, Unity’s Online Congregation has really grown. And we want to give our online attendees the chance to feel connected with our Leadership Team and other friends in our online community. Since you can’t hang out in person in Unity’s Front Room, we’re creating a virtual space to gather after the Service and we’re calling it the “Back Room.” Join Rev. Kitty and friends in this special Zoom room to meet and greet, talk about the Service, and let us know how we can better support you online. There’s no set agenda, but a moderator will keep things lively, so come to share, make friends, or just to listen in for a half hour or so.

    To access the Zoom room, click here.  Trouble getting into the Back Room? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!

March 10, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

    One tap mobile

    +13126266799,,85251930920# US (Chicago)

    +13017158592,,85251930920# US (Washington DC).

    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

March 12, 2025
  • SISTERS IN SPIRIT ~ IN PERSON BOOK CLUB - WED MAR 12 at 6:30pm AT UNITY

    This month the In-Person Book Club is reading The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison. Meetings will be held the 2nd Wednesday of the month in the Community Café. Join us on March 12th 6:30p.m. at Unity in Naperville to discuss this book. All are welcome. For more information, contact Deb DiSandro at Deb@DebDiSandro.com. If purchasing the book on Amazon, please remember to start your purchase using the Amazon link on our home page and Unity will receive a portion of the sale.

March 16, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • UNITY'S FOOD FOR THOUGHT — 3rd SUN of the MONTH AFTER SERVICE
    Starting Sunday, Jan 19, join us after service every 3rd Sunday for Unity's Food for Thought, a monthly gathering in our Community Café. Enjoy a complimentary lunch and dive into conversation sparked by what was shared in the service that morning. Bonus: we’ll be recording these discussions for a new podcast series! Shout-out to Candy Crawford, who is hosting the conversation and podcast. Come for the food, stay for the fellowship, and chew on some tasty Truth. See you there! Questions? Please email Kim-Char

March 17, 2025
  • MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS (Online) - MONDAYS 10:30am–Noon CST

    To access the zoom call, click here

    MMM is reading: SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott

    Shortcut to a Miracle penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.

    Book endorsements include:

    Amazingly clear in explaining profound principles.  There is no other book like it… a fascinating and highly practical book that provides a scientific foundation for Affirmative Prayer based on quantum physics….”  Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes, Unity Spiritual Leader

    “Deep down, the consciousness of mankind is one… and if we don’t see this it’s because we are blinding ourselves to it.”  David Bohm, Eminent Theoretical Scientist in Quantum Physics

    Apply what this book teaches and find the Greatness in you!” Dr. Deepak Chopra

    Click the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate to Unity.

    Monday Morning Metaphysics is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all.  Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer.  Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time!  Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate.  Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source.  

    Join Zoom Meeting:   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920

    Meeting ID: 852 5193 0920

    One tap mobile

    +13126266799,,85251930920# US (Chicago)

    +13017158592,,85251930920# US (Washington DC).

    Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kj97wKkk5

March 18, 2025
  • SPRING EQUINOX SPIRIT CIRCLE DRUMMING - TUE MAR 18 at 6:30-8:00pm

    Nurture your spirit through rhythm and meditation. Based on a blend of traditions, this Spirit Circle draws on our most ancient roots to creatively raise group energy. Astrological influences will be honored, aligning us with the cosmos so that we can empower ourselves and each other.

    Each round will begin with a chant or Native American style flute song. Rhythm instruments will gradually come in until the drumming reaches its natural conclusion. There will be a few moments of silent meditation, taking in the energy that was raised and then sending it out as prayers and blessings. The energy will then be grounded.

    This is a safe place to connect with your deepest wisdom, honor your inner guidance and create more love and light for yourself and for the universe. You are welcome to bring your own drums, rattles, or rhythm instruments as a limited number of shared instruments will be available. If you don't have an instrument, come anyway.  Love offering $20.  Click here to register online <link coming soon> or register at the Info Table.

    Karen Tlusty-Rissman is a musician, astrologer, artist and celebrant of Spirit. She currently leads a variety of meditation classes in the western suburbs and has facilitated sacred circles for over 35 years. She weaves the common threads from many Earth-centered traditions as well as astrology, aromatherapy, and energy work to provide participants with a direct connection to their inner Source. Karen plays the Native American flute, concert flute, bass guitar, Tibetan singing bowls, and gong. She is available for private consultation, meditation classes, musical performances, and lessons. 

  • SISTERS IN SPIRIT ~ ONLINE BOOK CLUB - TUE MAR 18 at 7pm-8:30pm

    Connect with the woman of Unity of Naperville and enjoy time together for community in an online space.  We will meet each month on the third Tuesday night from 7:00 p.m. until around 8:30 to discuss a book chosen by the group.  The books and genre will vary depending on the suggestions.  Our first book is Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano. We will read the first 205 pages before our meeting on March 18, 2025.  For more information, contact Admin@UnityInNaperville.org. If purchasing the book on Amazon, please remember to use the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org (instructions are below) and Unity will receive a portion of the sale.

    Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89928949423?pwd=L9ntffGQ3OdhLEWbGq7JEzfOxkXMCj.1

March 21, 2025
  • SHORE ROAD OPEN MIC NIGHT - FRI MAR 21 at 7pm, Doors & Sign-up open at 6:30p

    Experience the magic of community and creativity at The Shore Road Open Mic Night! Join us on Friday, March 21, from 7 to 9 PM, with doors opening and Sign-up starting at 6:30 PM. Whether you’re a singer-songwriter, flutist, a master of spoken word, a spoon-playing sensation, or have another unique talent to share, we welcome you to take the stage. This is a family-friendly event, so bring your friends and loved ones to share in an evening where all forms of expression are celebrated. A modest cover charge of $5 is requested from performers and attendees alike, with each act given up to 8 minutes to shine. If you sign-up as a performer, you are encouraged to stay for the entire program, engage with each performance, and be a part of creating a warm, supportive atmosphere for all. If you have a GROUP OR BAND that wants to perform, please email Kim-Char to confirm we have the sound system to support you. Likewise, if you are a vocalist wanting to sing to an accompaniment track, please email Kim-Char and we’ll provide further details on file requirements.

    Being a remarkable audience member is essential to fostering a positive environment for performers, especially those who might be venturing onto the stage for the first time. Here are a few tips to ensure everyone has a great experience: always know who’s next in line by paying attention to the sign-up list; respect and follow the event rules to ensure smooth transitions between acts; encourage others by clapping, laughing, and staying engaged throughout their performance; and be especially supportive of first-timers, making them feel welcome and appreciated. By being an attentive, encouraging audience member, you contribute to the nurturing atmosphere that makes The Shore Road Open Mic Night a uniquely uplifting event. Let’s come together to celebrate the wealth of talent that surrounds us and enjoy an evening filled with inspiration, camaraderie, and fun.

March 23, 2025
  • SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
    Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary!  Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org.  Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.

    Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.

  • MEMBERSHIP CLASS - SUN MAR 23 at Noon to 3:00pm
    Check back from more information!

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