We all carry baggage – suitcases full of childhood traumas real and perceived. When one persons trauma bumps into another persons trauma a mini explosion happens…”Boom!” Sudden anger, hostility and unkind words can fill the room and no one even fully understands what happened or where it came from!
It isn’t all that unusual to find ourselves in a situation when all of a sudden we are finding ourselves reacting with way too much energy
to someones words or actions that just trigger that short fuse. Our job in these times is to try to pause, take a step back and try to see where inside of us these feelings are coming from? With a little space and a few deep breaths we can then come back with a more normal reaction. Later, when we are alone, we can review what happened and try to trace back where the heck those feelings originated.
“Your triggers have something to teach you about yourself.” ~Panache Desai
“Our job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.” ~ Byron Katie
It almost made me a little nervous to write this e-blurb because I know all too well how life goes. I could be writing this article and feeling pretty good about myself, that it has been quite awhile since I had my buttons pushed. Yes… I’m doing pretty good with that.
We all know what happens next, right? I’m going to go to work and be serenely going about my day… and then all of a sudden..wham there it is! Button pushed! Emotions engaged! All systems go!
Well, at least when it comes and that happens I am lucky enough to come to Unity in Naperville where we get tools for our tool kits for times like that!! Keeping my serenity tool real close!!
Yours in Peace! Carol Gadbaw
- April 1, 2025
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SISTERS IN SPIRIT - TUES APR 1 at 6:30pm - AT UNITY & ONLINE
Our next general meeting is to prepare for the Pursonality event on April 5. We really need to publicize the event and sell tickets. I just checked the sales and we currently have 13 tickets sold. I know that people tend to buy tickets at the last minute, but it would be really helpful if you buy your tickets early. This is going to be a really fun event. Bring your friends and family to the Pursonality event too.ZOOM LINK: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/9906630747
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- April 4, 2025
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HERD MENTALITY GAME NIGHT!!! - FRI APR 4 AT 7PM
Herd Mentality is a light-hearted game that rewards players for thinking like the group. This fun party game asks random questions you need to answer like everyone else. If your answer is in the majority, you'll win cows. However, if your answer is the odd one out, you'll land the angry Pink Cow and your herd will be worth nothing for the time being. It’s perfect for parties and gatherings, as it encourages laughter and discussion.
Herd Mentality Game Night will be held at Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd, Naperville, IL 60563. Please bring snacks to share and a $2 entry fee is asked to fund the prize pot, so please bring cash. Sign up in the Cafe or email admin@unityinnaperville.org.
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- April 5, 2025
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WHAT'S YOUR PURSE-ONALITY? - SAT APR 5 at 10am-Noon
Join humorist and purse-ologist Deb DiSandro for a hilarious and heartfelt event all about - you guessed it - Purses! Bring your mom, sisters, cousins, and gal pals for a fun-filled time of laughing, learning and unlocking the mysteries of the people (and purses you love).
Tote-ally entertaining - Clutch your sides laughing - All purse-onalities welcome
Tickets are $30 in advance and $40 at the door. Includes refreshments. Tickets are available online and at the Info Table! Your chance to WIN CASH in the 50/50 Raffle! Raffle tickets on sale for $5 each at the Event and on Sundays prior. Winner wins half the pot! Proceeds from this event go to support the mission, programs and services of Unity in Naperville. Thank you for your sup
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- April 6, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.
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- April 7, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP – ONLINE - 1ST MON OF THE MONTH at 7-8pm
Many of us have had the experience of losing someone dear to us. Yet no two people experience it in the same way. However, most would say that it helps to have someone support you as you journey through the process, and that’s what our Grief Support Group is for. Rev. Kitty will lead us as we take time for personal sharing and inspiration.
To access the Zoom room, click here. Trouble getting in? Call or text 630-499-9968.
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- April 9, 2025
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SISTERS IN SPIRIT ~ IN PERSON BOOK CLUB - 2nd WED of the Month at 6:30pm AT UNITY
This month's book choice for the IN-PERSON Book Club is The Giver of Stars by JoJo Moyes. Meetings will be held the 2nd Wednesday of the month in the Community Café. All are welcome. For more information, contact Deb DiSandro at Deb@DebDiSandro.com
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- April 11, 2025
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SHORE ROAD OPEN MIC NIGHT - FRI APR 11 at 7pm, Doors & Sign-up open at 6:30p
Experience the magic of community and creativity at The Shore Road Open Mic Night! Join us on Friday, April 11, from 7 to 9 PM, doors open/sign-up starts at 6:30 PM. A modest cover charge of $5 is requested from performers and attendees alike, with each act given up to 8 minutes to shine. If you sign-up as a performer, you are encouraged to stay for the entire program, engage with each performance, and be a part of creating a warm, supportive atmosphere for all. If you have a GROUP OR BAND that wants to perform, please email Kim-Char in advance to confirm we have the sound system to support you. Likewise, if you are a vocalist wanting to sing to an accompaniment track, please email Kim-Char and we’ll provide further details on file requirements. MORE INFO AT: pxl.to/shore-road
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- April 12, 2025
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ENERGY OF SPIRIT - SAT APR 12 at 10-11am
This is a lovely hands on class! You will learn about the Five Rhythms and how to hold acupoints on the head to bring balance to the organs and emotions of each Rhythm. Class notes are always provided prior to the class. Advance registration is requested but not required. Email Admin@UnityinNaperville.org or sign up in the Cafe. Suggested love offering $10-20. Donate at UnityInNaperville.org or at the door. Questions? Email Admin@UnityInNaperville.org.
Every Blessing, Cindy Spies RN MSN Clinical Energy Healing Practitioner
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- April 13, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
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“BACK ROOM DISCUSSION” FOR OUR ONLINE VIEWERS - 2nd SUNDAY OF THE MONTH - 12n-12:30pm
access the Zoom room, click here.
In the last three years, Unity’s Online Congregation has really grown. And we want to give our online attendees the chance to feel connected with our Leadership Team and other friends in our online community. Since you can’t hang out in person in Unity’s Front Room, we’re creating a virtual space to gather after the Service and we’re calling it the “Back Room.” Join Rev. Kitty and friends in this special Zoom room to meet and greet, talk about the Service, and let us know how we can better support you online. There’s no set agenda, but a moderator will keep things lively, so come to share, make friends, or just to listen in for a half hour or so.
To access the Zoom room, click here. Trouble getting into the Back Room? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!
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- April 14, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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- April 15, 2025
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SISTERS IN SPIRIT ~ ONLINE BOOK CLUB - 3rd TUE of the MONTH at 7pm-8:30pm
Connect with the woman of Unity of Naperville and enjoy time together for community in an online space. We will meet each month on the third Tuesday night from 7:00 p.m. until around 8:30 to discuss a book chosen by the group. The books and genre will vary depending on the suggestions. The book we are discussing this month is the second half of Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano. For more information, contact Admin@UnityInNaperville.org. If purchasing the book on Amazon, please remember to use the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org and Unity will receive a portion of the sale.
ZOOM LINK: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89928949423?pwd=L9ntffGQ3OdhLEWbGq7JEzfOxkXMCj.1
Meeting ID: 899 2894 9423
Passcode: 098381
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- April 18, 2025
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LETTING GO: Trusting the Process of Spiritual Death and Renewal Through Song, Meditation, and Community - FRI APR 18 at 7-8:30pm, Doors open at 6:30pm
$20 in advance, $25 at doorBring a blanket to sit on. Bring something that represents something that you are letting go of. Chairs will be available for those who need one.
Join us in this sacred gathering, where we will hold space to honor and release the parts of ourselves and our lives that are passing, with deep gratitude. Through song, meditation, and shared reflection, we will open our hearts, express our whole selves, and embrace the healing journey through acceptance, surrender, and love. In this sacred act of letting go, we will make room for our own renewal and resurrection.
About Enoch Kim - Enoch has led spiritual communities in song for over 20 years, creating sacred spaces where people feel connected to the divine, themselves, and each other. With a deep passion for communal music-making, he facilitates singing gatherings and songwriting sessions that uplift both seasoned musicians and first-time singers. Through his heartfelt song leading, Enoch invites participants into a transformative experience of spiritual connection and authentic self expression. TICKETS: https://unityinnaperville.org/v2/2025/03/29/letting-go-with-enoch-kim/
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- April 20, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
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UNITY'S FOOD FOR THOUGHT — CANCELLED DUE TO EASTER
Unity's Food for Thought will be back next month! Cancelled this month, April 20th due to Easter.
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- April 21, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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- April 27, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.
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- April 28, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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