We all carry baggage – suitcases full of childhood traumas real and perceived. When one persons trauma bumps into another persons trauma a mini explosion happens…”Boom!” Sudden anger, hostility and unkind words can fill the room and no one even fully understands what happened or where it came from!
It isn’t all that unusual to find ourselves in a situation when all of a sudden we are finding ourselves reacting with way too much energy
to someones words or actions that just trigger that short fuse. Our job in these times is to try to pause, take a step back and try to see where inside of us these feelings are coming from? With a little space and a few deep breaths we can then come back with a more normal reaction. Later, when we are alone, we can review what happened and try to trace back where the heck those feelings originated.
“Your triggers have something to teach you about yourself.” ~Panache Desai
“Our job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.” ~ Byron Katie
It almost made me a little nervous to write this e-blurb because I know all too well how life goes. I could be writing this article and feeling pretty good about myself, that it has been quite awhile since I had my buttons pushed. Yes… I’m doing pretty good with that.
We all know what happens next, right? I’m going to go to work and be serenely going about my day… and then all of a sudden..wham there it is! Button pushed! Emotions engaged! All systems go!
Well, at least when it comes and that happens I am lucky enough to come to Unity in Naperville where we get tools for our tool kits for times like that!! Keeping my serenity tool real close!!
Yours in Peace! Carol Gadbaw
- May 10, 2025
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GORDON HERZOG - CELEBRATION OF LIFE SERVICE – SAT MAY 10 at 1:30pm at UNITY
Eighteen years ago, as Rev. Kitty pioneered Unity in Naperville, her best friend Gordon Herzog volunteered his services as Unity’s accountant...and he continued to do so until the day he passed on Jan. 28 of this year. It didn’t matter where he lived around the country, he always managed to gather the data and produce our financial reports for every board meeting. And for a season, while he lived in Naperville, he also brought his years of pianist experience to our band on Sundays. At the time of his passing, he was living in Arizona. He and his husband, Reed had retired there recently and continued to watch us every Sunday on our livestream. Now Reed has decided to hold Gordon’s Celebration of Life Service back here at Unity, led by Rev. Kitty. If your path has crossed with Gordon over the years, or you’d just like to support Rev. Kitty as she says goodbye to her best friend of the last 50 years, please plan to join us in the Sanctuary at Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd. Naperville 60563 on Saturday May 10 at 1:30pm. We’ll also enjoy light refreshments in the Café afterward. To help us prepare the food appropriately your RSVP would be helpful but not required. Use the signup sheet in the Café or email RevKitty@unityinnaperville.org.
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- May 11, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community. -
BACK ROOM DISCUSSION for Online Viewers - 2nd SUN of the MONTH – 12:15-12:30pm
access the Zoom room, click here.
We know that our spiritual community is made of, not only local friends, but viewers watching from all over the country. And we want to give our online attendees the chance to feel connected with Rev. Kitty, our Leadership Team and each other. If that’s you, please plan to join us in our virtual “Back Room” on the second Sunday of each month to get to know each other, talk about the Sunday Service, and let us know how we can better support you online. We’ll start at 12:15pm and run for 10-15 minutes depending on attendance. There’s no set agenda, but a moderator will keep things lively, so come to share, make friends, or just to listen in. Access the Zoom room from our event calendar at UnityInNaperville.org.
To access the Zoom room, click here. Trouble getting into the Back Room? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!
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- May 12, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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- May 14, 2025
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SISTERS IN SPIRIT BOOK CLUB - WED MAY 14 at 6:30pm AT UNITY & ONLINE
Connect with the women of Unity and enjoy community time together. We will meet each month AT UNITY and ONLINE on the second Wednesday 6:30-8:00pm to discuss a book chosen by the group. The books and genre will vary depending on the suggestions. For May, we will discuss Educated by Tara Westover.
For more information, contact Admin@UnityInNaperville.org. If purchasing the book on Amazon, please remember to use the Amazon link at UnityInNaperville.org and Unity will receive a portion of the sale.
ZOOM LINK: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89928949423?pwd=L9ntffGQ3OdhLEWbGq7JEzfOxkXMCj.1
Meeting ID: 899 2894 9423
Passcode: 098381
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- May 18, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community. -
UNITY'S FOOD FOR THOUGHT — 3rd SUN of the MONTH AFTER SERVICE
Join us the 3rd Sunday of the month for the next Food for Thought, a monthly gathering in our Community Café. Enjoy a complimentary lunch and dive into conversation sparked by what was shared in the service that morning. Shout-out to Candy Crawford, who is hosting the conversation. Come for the food, stay for the fellowship, and chew on some tasty Truth. See you there! Questions? Please email Kim-Char.
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- May 19, 2025
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MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
Monday Morning Metaphysics (MMM) is a casual drop-in study/discussion group that meets on Zoom each Monday from 10:30 am – 12 Noon CT and is open to all. Every Monday morning is stand-alone, so drop in any time! Our MMM format is to read books verbatim, so participants don’t need their own copy of the book to participate. Facilitated by Rev. Dr Mary Beth Speer. Participants are encouraged to designate Love Offerings to their selected spiritual source. All are welcome - join us!
MMM is reading SHORTCUT TO A MIRACLE – How to Change Your Consciousness and Transform Your Life, by Michael Rann and Elizabeth Rann Arrott.
Shortcut to a Miracle was penned by two of Chicagoland’s own paragon New Thought ministers, Rev. Elizabeth Rann Arrott and Rev. Michael Rann. Shortcut to a Miracle delves into the intersection of science and spirituality in a remarkably clear and practical approach, exploring the connection of the science of Mind and Spirit with the breakthrough discoveries in the field of quantum physics. This book study is perfect for everyone, whether new to New Thought or long-time students alike.
Click the “Shop at Amazon” button at UnityInNaperville.org to find the book and Amazon will donate a portion of the sale to Unity.
Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85251930920
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EVENT TEAM MEETING - MON MAY 19 at 6:00pm
Interested in helping plan events? Join us at 6pm on Zoom. Our Zoom call end after 40 minutes so please be on time and let's plan to talk fast!
ZOOM LINK: coming soon
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- May 20, 2025
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PLANNING SESSION for SUZANNE GIESEMANN VOLUNTEERS - ONLINE – TUE MAY 20 at 6:30pm
We have a sold-out crowd coming to Unity on Sat. May 31 and that means we’ll need LOTS OF HELP to make the event run smoothly. IF YOU HAVE A TICKET, will you please sign up to help? We’ll need volunteers to check in attendees, hand out materials, seat people, direct traffic in the parking lot, drive people from the back parking lot to the front door, help with book signing, and direct bathroom traffic. If you DON’T have a ticket but are willing to help before or after the event, please sign up as well. Depending on your assignment we may need you as early as 11:30am or to stay as late as 4pm. There will be a sign-up sheet in the Café or email Admin@unityinnaperville.org. Rev. Kitty will host a planning session for volunteers on Tue. May 20 at 6:30pm ON ZOOM.
To access the Zoom room, click here. Problems accessing the meeting? Call 630-740-1656.
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- May 24, 2025
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ENERGY OF SPIRIT - SAT MAY 24 AT 10-11am AT UNITY
The current collective consciousness of fear, angst, and anger depletes our energies and throws our body and Spirit off balance. We can lose sight of our Wholeness. At the next Energy of Spirit class, you will learn techniques to release unharmonious emotional energies to restore the body and Spirit. Come to our lovely group to rediscover your Radiant Self! Love offering of $10 to $20.
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- May 25, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
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LET’S GO TO LUNCH - LAST SUN of THE MONTH after church - AT PORTILLOS
Let's get together after the service for lunch and socialization. This will be a monthly event on the last Sunday of each month. Location may vary but we will do this monthly, so you can plan ahead. Let's get to know each other better.
We’ll eat at Portillo’s, 1992 W. Jefferson St., Naperville IL 60540 (corner of Route 59 & Jefferson St) for our lunch out! If you have suggestions on where to eat or questions, email admin@unityinnaperville.org. See you there!
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- May 26, 2025
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CANCELLED 5/26, 6/2 & 6/9 - MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
MMM will not meet 5/26, 6/2, and 6/9.
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- May 31, 2025
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SUZANNE GIESEMANN Q&A and CONVERSATION, SCREENING of "WOLF'S MESSAGE", BOOK SIGNING - SAT MAY 31 at 1pm
Join us for an engaging afternoon featuring Suzanne Giesemann and the powerful documentary, "Wolf's Message," - Saturday, May 31, at Unity in Naperville, 1600 Shore Road - Unit C, Naperville, IL 60563. Doors open at 12:30 p.m. with a special mini-concert with Kim-Char & Highest Good at 1 p.m. Screening and Q&A start at 1:30 p.m., followed by the Book Signing. Tickets are priced at $30 in advance and $40 at the door. CLICK HERE FOR TICKETS AND MORE INFORMATION
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- June 1, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community.
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- June 2, 2025
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CANCELLED 5/26, 6/2 & 6/9 - MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
MMM will not meet 5/26, 6/2, and 6/9.
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- June 6, 2025
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GAME NIGHT!!! - FRI JUN 6 at 7pm
Check back later to find out what game we'll be playing!
Game Nights will be held at Unity in Naperville, 1600-C Shore Rd, Naperville, IL 60563. Please bring snacks to share and a $2 entry fee is asked to fund the prize pot, so please bring cash. Sign up in the Cafe or email admin@unityinnaperville.org.
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- June 8, 2025
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SUNDAY SERVICE - EVERY SUNDAY at 10:45-11:45am
Join Rev. Kitty Benson, Kim-Char Meredith and our band, Highest Good, for an IN-PERSON SERVICE or continue to watch us ONLINE as we LIVESTREAM from our Sanctuary! Watch the livestream online beginning at 10:45 a.m. on our YouTube channel, our Facebook page or on our website UnityInNaperville.org. Our Sunday Services include live and uplifting music, followed by Rev. Kitty's inspiring message and peaceful meditation.
Please remember, Unity is a breathe-easy zone. Please refrain from wearing perfume or cologne while in our building to help us support those in need in our Unity Community. -
BACK ROOM DISCUSSION for Online Viewers - 2nd SUN of the MONTH – 12:15-12:30pm
access the Zoom room, click here.
We know that our spiritual community is made of, not only local friends, but viewers watching from all over the country. And we want to give our online attendees the chance to feel connected with Rev. Kitty, our Leadership Team and each other. If that’s you, please plan to join us in our virtual “Back Room” on the second Sunday of each month to get to know each other, talk about the Sunday Service, and let us know how we can better support you online. We’ll start at 12:15pm and run for 10-15 minutes depending on attendance. There’s no set agenda, but a moderator will keep things lively, so come to share, make friends, or just to listen in. Access the Zoom room from our event calendar at UnityInNaperville.org.
To access the Zoom room, click here. Trouble getting into the Back Room? Call or text 630-499-9968. See you there!
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- June 9, 2025
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CANCELLED 5/26, 6/2 & 6/9 - MONDAY MORNING METAPHYSICS – MONDAYS at 10:30am-Noon CST
MMM will not meet 5/26, 6/2, and 6/9.
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